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Showing posts with label Down Syndrome. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Down Syndrome. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Frankie is Two!

June 2012

Well good morning!

Happy Birthday! Yay for Two!

We love waking up to birthday decor!
It's an exciting day!


He must have known that is was his special day.


Too cute for words.

Frankie is one loved little boy.
He loves the swing and slide and can sign for them both.

One of his favorite songs, If Your Happy and You Know It.
"...and your face will surely show it" (pictured on right)
He also likes The Itsy Bitsy Spider.
He has SO many silly faces!



Blowing out the candles or blowing up his hair. 



I think he likes cake.


Head to toe.


We love you Frankie!!  We love EVERYTHING about you!

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

A hospital trip for Frankie

April 2012

For Spring Break we didn't go anywhere.  We were planning on staying here and finding fun around Salt Lake.  I had lazor focus on my projects to get our house ready to sell.

 Frankie had a cold but he was happy.  It is common for kids with Down syndrome to drop in oxygen levels when they get a cold.  They can act fine but at the same time not get enough oxygen.  I have a pulse oximeter at home to test him for low oxygen when he has a cold.  With this cold, his oxygen levels were normal.

On the first day of the break, Frankie was eating a pre dinner snack in his high chair.  Little bits of crackers and small pieces of string cheese.  While he was eating, he started coughing/ choking on food. I examined him and he seemed to be struggling to breath a little.  I patted his back firmly but couldn't figure out what happened.  He was breathing, no food in his mouth at this point and his lips were turning blue.  His tummy seemed to be working hard to contract and to breathe.  He started acting lethargic.  I tested his O2 levels and they'd jump all over the place.  He should always be 90 or above.  Well he was at 87, 90, 84, 79.  

Kevin just arrived home from work as I had just hung up with the ENT doc who told me to take him in now.  We live so close to the hospital that we figured it would be six's to call 911 or drive there.  I was in a dead panic by now.  It was not to long ago that we had called  911 from my Dad's emergency situation and My E.R visit for my allergic reaction (don't think I blogged about that one).  To much trauma!!

The kids all climbed the car barefoot as Kevin sped us to the hospital.
I sat in the back with Frankie on my lap.  Arms dangling, loosing color, blue lips, head bobbing and about to pass out.   I was shaking him to stay with me.

When we got to the hospital I ran inside with him bobbing on my hip hoping he would not pass out. 
His oxygen was 74 on arrival.  


The doctors were unsure what had happened.  They sedated him and scoped him to see if he had food in his lungs but it was clear.  He was admitted for two nights.  Which in hospital time felt like 10 nights.
I had all these fun plans of things to do with the kids on spring break but I got robbed and had to spend their days off school, stuck in the hospital.  
It was the worst!  

He had a hard time recovering from the scope since he had a cold.


The test results came back positive for Rhino virus.  
The common cold.


Here is Frankie singing,
"If your happy and you know it.... face will surely show it."
The only explanation as to why Frankie went blue at home and struggled to breath was that maybe he choked on the string cheese, threw up stomach fluids and then aspirated the stomach fluids into his lungs.  
It wiped him out.  

His oxygen kept dropping while he slept so they wanted to keep him there.  But I kept assuring them that it was because he had a cold.  
Frankie hated anyone who came near him with a stethoscope.

We got so sick of the cords and things.  It was hard to keep Frankie entertained!
A visit from the kids was just what we needed.  


We finally got sent home with oxygen for Frankie to wear while he sleeps and an order for a sleep study.  

Frankie aspirated again a month later at home eating... small bits of string cheese. 
Thankfully Kevin was home and we had a Decadron pill ( a bronchodilator) from Frankie's croup days.
Frankie's oxygen began to drop but after we gave him the pill, his oxygen came back up, he was fine and we've avoid the hospital on that second one.

So Frankie, who has lots of teeth and 4 molars is restricted from eating string cheese.  He shovels it and swallows it and since it doesn't dissolve,  he chokes.

All of this = not fun.


*****
Sleep study day.

It is common for kids with Down syndrome to have sleep apnea.  And due to his low oxygen levels (while sleeping) at the hospital, a sleep study could help us determine if he has sleep apnea or not.


He was pretty good at allowing them to put on all the probes.  Towards the end, he just layed back in my arms all still with this stuff hooked up to him and looked at me like, k-you've got me!

He had to sleep like this !

I slept in the Murphy bed next to his crib.  
We were woken up at 6 am and he got all that stuff taken off of him.
Boy was he happy about that!

The sleep results are lengthy to report but the bottom line, no oxygen is needed while he sleeps. 
Yay!!

A lot of info.  But it's scenarios like this that help us fine tune Frankie's needs.  

Thursday, October 27, 2011

A Pool Party and Buddy Walk 2011


This summer, Heather (who I've meet through the Down syndrome world) hosted a fun swimming party for our families.

During the summer craziness we've lost track of the play groups so it was fun to see everyone again and also fun to meet new families.

When we pulled up to the party I saw little Mia getting out of the car and I just screamed!  
My kids couldn't understand my excitement to meet Mia!  I blogged about her here.
Cute Mia was just adopted last May at the age of 4 from the Ukraine by Kris and Keica.  
They also have a darling little girl with Down syndrome named Bree who is 4 as well. 
I LOVED following their story everyday as they went to get her and I cried many tears of joy while watching their journey to her.  
She is adorable!!  Her eyes were all red from swimming.  She just loved being thrown in the pool by her daddy.     

Sisters Mia and Bree.
So cute!

Kecia and Frankie.  Kecia is now expecting twin girls!  
We are so excited for them and pray for their babies safe arrival.

Frankie loved swimming.  Right- MaryJane and her friend Eliza, who is Henry's sister.

Henry and Frankie are just a few weeks apart in age.  I love it when we get these boys together.  
They are so fun to watch.
Thanks Heather for a great time!
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My first Buddy Walk!

For this years Buddy Walk, we weren't planning on going because we had one of those crazy Saturdays with soccer games and birthday parties.  But I really wanted to try and make it.  So we sent Cole and Sadie off with friends and rides so we could go.
I'm so happy that we made it work!  This is only a small shot of a very large group of families who support the Down syndrome community.  I can't wait to walk with my family next year!


They had many fun activities all day, Free Games, Train rides, Dunking Booth, Bounce Houses and entertainment by Rachael Colman of Signing Time.  
MaryJane and Eliza
Max, Frankie and Lyla who is a first cousin to Bree and Mia.


Kecia, Frankie and I.

I love these boys!!

Hanging out with Henry and his mom Amanda.

They were so cute and sat there drumming with pencils on paper.  Content forever.

This is Tasha and her little boy Sam who is 3.  Tasha used to be a roommate of my sister Jill. 
 It was great to run into her there and meet cute Sam!

Sam really liked Frankie and wanted to give him lots of kisses.


This is cute Jayne who I've met through the playgroups.

I honestly love all these little faces!!  I have such an outpouring love for people with Down syndrome. 
 I love being apart of this Down syndrome family!

Remember this post about "A Club"?

Once again I'll post another favorite quote.

"We often think that having a child with Down syndrome is like gaining membership to a secret club, a club you never knew you wanted to be in or even existed, but once you are in, you are so thankful that you were chosen."

In honor of National Down syndrome awareness month here are some facts taken from the NDSA website.

  • Down syndrome occurs when an individual has three, rather than two, copies of the 21st chromosome. This additional genetic material alters the course of development and causes the characteristics associated with Down syndrome.
  • Down syndrome is the most commonly occurring chromosomal condition. One in every 691 babies is born with Down syndrome.
  • There are more than 400,000 people living with Down syndrome in the United States.
  • Down syndrome occurs in people of all races and economic levels

  •  People with Down syndrome have an increased risk for certain medical conditions such as congenital heart defects, respiratory and hearing problems, Alzheimer's disease, childhood leukemia, and thyroid conditions. Many of these conditions are now treatable, so most people with Down syndrome lead healthy lives.
  • A few of the common physical traits of Down syndrome are low muscle tone, small stature, an upward slant to the eyes, and a single deep crease across the center of the palm. Every person with Down syndrome is a unique individual and may possess these characteristics to different degrees or not at all.

  • Life expectancy for people with Down syndrome has increased dramatically in recent decades - from 25 in 1983 to 60 today.
  •  People with Down syndrome attend school, work, participate in decisions that affect them, and contribute to society in many wonderful ways.

  •  All people with Down syndrome experience cognitive delays, but the effect is usually mild to moderate and is not indicative of the many strengths and talents that each individual possess
  • Quality educational programs, a stimulating home environment, good health care, and positive support from family, friends and the community enable people with Down syndrome to develop their full potential and lead fulfilling lives.
  • Researchers are making great strides in identifying the genes on Chromosome 21 that cause the characteristics of Down syndrome. Many feel strongly that it will be possible to improve, correct or prevent many of the problems associated with Down syndrome in the future.

Monday, October 24, 2011

Patty Cake!

October is National Down syndrome awareness month.  
A lot of bloggers have been posting everyday to spread awareness.  I'm not on top of it as some.  But I would like to share a few of my thoughts (hopefully this week) and things I have seen posted. 

At the age of 31, I found out that Frankie had Down syndrome at my 20 week ultrasound.  
Receiving the news was really hard.  A time I will never forget.  Every time I reflect upon the details of those days and the emotions that I felt, it can still bring me to tears.  
It was hard to adjust my expectations to something different...a little detour.

“Having a child with Down syndrome is like taking the scenic route. You still get where you are going. It may take a little longer, but it will be well worth the trip!”

A small percentage of mothers find out their child has Down syndrome before the baby is born.   
For me, I feel really blessed to have known before Frankie was born, so I could go through the process of grieving before he was placed in my arms.

By the time Frankie was here, I was SO excited to meet him and SO ready to love him as he was.  I was so excited to start my journey with my little angel and finally meeting him was an absolute joy!  


What Causes Down syndrome?
Down syndrome is usually caused by an error in cell division called nondisjunction.  It is not known why this occurs.  However, it is known that the error occurs at conception and is not related to anything the mother did during pregnancy.  It has been known for some time that the incidience of Down syndrome increases with advancing maternal age.  However, 80% of children with Down syndrome are born to women under 35 years of age.

30%-50% of individuals with Down syndrome have heart defects.  

Most of these defects are correctable by surgery.  Thankfully, Frankie's heart was heathy and normal!


Loving this little guy has been SO easy!  I love the dynamic he adds to our family and I wouldn't trade him for anything!  His slower growth development has been so enjoyable.  
I get to bottle up each stage just a little longer.  He is just what I needed.

I know Frankie is here for me.  He is here to teach me.  
I'm not a perfect person who is perfect to raise a child with Down syndrome.  
I found this quote which describes exactly what I am trying to say.

"God doesn't give children with special needs to strong people; He gives children with special needs to ordinary, weak people and then gives them strength. Raising a child with special needs doesn't TAKE a special family, it MAKES a special family." 


Our family feels special because of him.  Oh how we love him!

Recently Frankie has learned how to clap.  
And it was all caught on video!

It is so cute to watch his excitement as he claps.  He is so pleased with himself.
He has all sorts of facial expressions as he claps.  It's so cute!

One Sunday while we were all at my parents home, we sat Frankie in the center of the table and tried to get him to play patty cake.  He learned really quick that if he'd clap, we'd cheer.  
We could have done it for hours!
It was so cute to watch him!!


And this is when he learned to clap.  Can you tell how much we all love him!

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